Finally, I bid goodbye to the Quarter life crisis.

The worst thing that can ever happen to you is this: LOSE YOURSELF. 

Don't ever lose yourself just because you failed entirely to be the person for everybody. Do not dare to be a celebrity and smile to almost every stranger, win their YES (for now) and be famous (otherwise be infamous). 

You know by heart that it is not the entire page of what life is really about. 

I am hoping you are not living for anybody. So as humbly crossing my fingers that you are now living for yourself and how you envision your life at thirty. Thirty may seem too far but trust me, four more years and you are officially part of the club. Both of us will be part of this. 

Before I forget, Congratulations and you've safely landed ashore. Stay safe, but not all your life. 

Stay safe, and learn to widen your comfort zone. Gain the necessary emotional range enough to make you breathe in, and breathe out. Emotional range makes you more moody but it gives you more parking space for new people in your life.

Don't be a garbage boy or girl. Let those trashes fit in nicely to where they (or these) should rightfully belong. dumpsite. 

Lessons learned a la carte.

1. Cross the bridge when you get there

2. Life isn't a race. 

3. true friends have true densities. the fake ones float. 

4. Life is never a race. Not even a destination so see it as a journey. 

5. if you do the same things, the same outcome is will obviously stab you. 

6. Stay calm. drink a good cup of coffee. 

7. Walking is a good, really good exercise. 

8. talking to oneself is a splendid stress eater.

9. Crying won't make you less loved. It won't make you less of a person. 

10. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not even boast. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 

11. Love yourself and kill that tendency to f*ckin compare yourself to others. 

12. An apple a day makes 7 apples a week. 

13. Talk to old people and your life will NEVER be the same. Talk to shallow minded seagulls and you will be a seagull all your life. 

14. You reap what you sow. Investing the good seeds of kindness and optimism makes sowing so much easier!

15. Watching this 76-year old Tom and Jerry Cartoon show is way better than all the cartoons combined. Be a kid one minute for each day.

16. Smiling at the mirror makes you realize you're getting old. 

17. Learn this: Throwing stones at all the dogs that bark makes you one of them. Ehem. 

18. Mudslinging with another one makes the both of you the kind of pig who enjoys the mud. Watch out!

19. Listening more and talking less makes you both mature and wiser. 

20. Checking your yearbook pages makes you think you're really really getting old.

21. Getting married is not a race. God has a grandiose plan to give the best person for you. Do not feel the pressure to find love and be broken. 

22. True love waits hence waiting is the right kind of thing for a post quarter life siesta. 

23. Reading a book puts you in a different circle compared to those who baffle at E! News. 

24. Please Marry traveling and the world is now at your backyard. It is now your backyard. To travel a lot, you must work hard. hehe. So working hard and traveling at the same time is being a light traveling in vacuum. 

25. Selling your old things make you save more space and gives you more buck to gauge up your travels! Travel to the moon and forth. 

26. Marrying the one you love is the best piece of advice. What age? Who can tell.